Preparing for launch The app for parents after separation
“I just don’t want you to fight over me.”
After a separation, most children wish above all for calm. SpoluRodiče helps you agree on everything that concerns your child, factually and fairly, even on the days when it is hard.
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- Records nobody can edit or delete
- Timestamps under eIDAS
- Data stored in the EU
- No ads, no selling of data
Through the child’s eyes
Childhood is not a battlefield.
Adult disputes don’t belong in a child’s bedroom.
Research agrees: what harms children most is frequent, unresolved conflict between parents, whether the parents live together or not. The good news is that calmer communication can be learned.
This is what an ordinary day looks like when parents work things out calmly.
Morning
Handovers without arguments at the door.
The Care Calendar shows you both, and your child, where they’ll sleep and who picks them up. You agree on a weekend swap in advance and approve it with one tap.
March
You Other parent
- Monday 10 You
- Tuesday 11 You
- Wednesday 12 You
- Thursday 13 Other parent
- Friday 14 Other parent
- Saturday 15 You
- Sunday 16 You
The other parent proposes swapping the weekend of March 15 – 16
Reason: grandma’s birthday
Approve DeclineAfternoon
Your child no longer has to carry messages between you.
Arrangements happen in messages, not through the child. The Courtesy Assistant stops insults and attacks: it returns the message to you with a calmer wording, which you can edit or send as it is.
I’ll be 40 minutes late, there’s traffic.
Your draft · not sent
Late again. If you can’t manage it, just say so.
This message could hurt. Try writing only what you need to arrange.
Suggestion
All right, we’ll wait. Could we agree that next time you let me know sooner when you’re running late?
Use suggestion EditNothing is changed or sent without you.
Evening
Your child doesn’t have to pick a side.
They stay close to you both: in the Child App they see where they’re sleeping tonight and can message or call each of you. When they need help from outside, the helpline is one tap away.
Hi, Emma
Today you’re sleeping at mum’s.
Dad is picking you up after school tomorrow.
Mum DadYour country’s free child helplineThe helpline is always anonymous.
For children
“I don’t want to have to choose between you.”
Your child gets an app of their own. They know what’s coming and can reach either of you at any time.
Child App
- In the Care Calendar, the child sees where they’re sleeping tonight and who is picking them up. They can message or call each of you.
- What the child writes or says to one of you, the other parent can’t see.
- Everything the child writes or says in the app is kept, just as it is for parents, so nobody can secretly influence or misuse them. The one exception is the helpline: it is always anonymous.
- Your country’s free child helpline in one tap.
- For children aged 6 and up. Either parent can set it up, the other is notified, and the child can always reach both of you.
Messages
- Mum Only the two of you see this.
- Dad Only the two of you see this.
Your country’s free child helplineThe helpline is always anonymous.
Parenting Plan
A guided questionnaire takes you step by step to an agreement on care in different situations: school, holidays, illness, moving house or a new partner.
Consultations with professionals
A consultation with a professional within 48 hours at a reduced rate.
You share material from the app only with your consent.
- Law
- Mediation
- Psychology
- Child psychology
- Family therapy
- Therapy
For parents
Arrangements about your child without arguments, go-betweens or guesswork.
Everything about your child in one place, and you both see the same.
Messages with the Courtesy Assistant
The Courtesy Assistant lets no insults or attacks through. It returns your message with a calmer wording you can edit or send as it is. Nothing is changed or sent without you.
Care Calendar
You both see who has the child when and who does the handover. You approve a swap request in one tap.
Expenses
Just take a photo of the receipt. The app splits it as you agreed and creates a QR code the other parent can use to pay their share straight away.
Recorded Calls
Calls in the app are recorded only with both parents’ consent and with clear notice. The automatic transcript is right there with the recording.
Certified Export for authorities and courts
Messages, calls and records in one export, with a qualified timestamp on every entry. The export is electronically sealed and verifiable.
Child Profile
Health, sizes, insurance and contacts in one place, up to date for both of you.
Trust
Settle what concerns your child calmly. And once and for all.
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Nobody can edit or delete messages, calls or records. Not even us.
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Every record carries a qualified timestamp under the eIDAS Regulation; the Certified Export is electronically sealed and verifiable.
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Encrypted in transit and at rest. Data stored in the EU.
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The Courtesy Assistant lets no insults or attacks through. Nothing is changed or sent without you.
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No ads. We don’t sell your messages and never share them to train anyone else’s AI models.
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The app takes no one’s side: both parents have the same rights.
Pricing
One pays, both have Premium.
Try Premium Plus free for 7 days, no card needed. The trial week starts when the other parent joins, at the latest 14 days after the family is created. After that, the family moves to Free and nothing is charged.
Premium
Most popular€11.99 a month
or €119 a year (€9.92 a month)
Everything in Free, plus:
- Messages with the Courtesy Assistant: unlimited
- Care Calendar, Parenting Plan, Child App
- Consultations with professionals within 48 hours at a reduced rate
- Recorded Calls with automatic transcripts: 2 hr a month
- Priority support
Premium Plus
€19.99 a month
or €199 a year (€16.58 a month)
Everything in Premium, plus:
- Recorded Calls with automatic transcripts: 5 hr a month
- Expenses: receipts, splitting, QR payments
Free
€0
Free for both parents
- Messages with the Courtesy Assistant: 20 a day
- Child Profile, Certified Export for authorities and courts
Launch prices, VAT included.
Compare plans
| Feature | Free | Premium | Premium Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Messages with the Courtesy Assistant | 20 a day | unlimited | unlimited |
| Child Profile, Certified Export for authorities and courts | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Care Calendar, Parenting Plan, Child App | No | Yes | Yes |
| Consultations with professionals within 48 hours at a reduced rate | No | Yes | Yes |
| Recorded Calls with automatic transcripts | No | 2 hr a month | 5 hr a month |
| Priority support | No | Yes | Yes |
| Expenses: receipts, splitting, QR payments | No | No | Yes |
- A plan belongs to the whole family. It’s enough for one parent to pay, and both have it.
- When a subscription ends, nothing is lost: both parents keep access to all messages and exports.
- Calls are only ever recorded with both parents’ consent.
- A reduced price or free access for survivors of domestic violence and parents on a low income: write to us.
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Frequently asked questions
What if the other parent doesn’t want to use the app?
We can’t make anyone join. But joining costs the other parent nothing: they don’t have to pay, and they have the same rights in the app as you. The Courtesy Assistant reviews both parents’ messages in the same way, so the other parent need not fear insults or attacks. The trial week starts when they join, or 14 days after the family is created at the latest.
Do we both have to pay?
No. The plan belongs to the whole family, not to one parent. One pays, both have Premium.
How does the trial week work, and what happens after it?
The trial week is 7 days of Premium Plus, free and without a payment card. It starts when the other parent joins the family, or 14 days after the family is created at the latest. Afterwards the family moves to the Free plan and nothing is charged.
Will a court or child protection authority accept the Certified Export?
Every record in the export carries a qualified timestamp under the eIDAS Regulation, and the whole export is electronically sealed. Anyone can verify when a record was created and that it hasn’t changed since. How it is used is always for the court or authority to decide; we can’t promise in advance that they will accept it.
Can anyone edit or delete messages?
No. Nobody can edit or delete messages, calls or records: not you, not the other parent and not us. The Courtesy Assistant reviews a message before it is sent and never changes delivered text. The record protects you both equally.
How does call recording work, and does the other side know?
A call is recorded only if you both agree, so the other side always knows; the app also gives a clear notice that the call is being recorded. The recording gets an automatic transcript, and both become part of the family’s permanent record.
Premium includes 2 hr of calls a month, Premium Plus 5 hr. Unused minutes don’t roll over to the next month, a single call lasts at most 2 hr, and the child’s calls count towards the family’s limit.
Does artificial intelligence read my messages?
Yes, but only to review them: the Courtesy Assistant reviews every message a parent writes before it is delivered, whether it goes to the other parent or to the child in the Child App. A message that passes is delivered unchanged. Otherwise it comes back to you as a draft, with an explanation and a suggested calmer wording; nothing is changed or sent without you.
Every version you try to send, and the assistant’s assessment of it, is stored in an internal audit log that cannot be edited or deleted. Its only purpose is checking and improving the assistant’s decisions. Parents don’t see it, and it is not part of the Certified Export. Only authorised staff may read it, and every access is logged. We never sell it or use it to train anyone else’s AI models.
Is the app safe for children, and what is stored?
The Child App is for children aged 6 and over. Everything a child writes or says in it is stored just like the parents’ messages, so nobody can secretly influence or misuse the child. The exception is the helpline: contact with it is always anonymous. What a child writes or says with one parent, the other parent doesn’t see.
A parent can export their own conversation with the child at any time, and the other parent’s conversation only with that parent’s approval. The Courtesy Assistant never reviews a child’s messages.
I have children with two different partners. How does that work?
Each of those relationships is a separate family in the app, with its own messages, calendar and records. The other parent in one family sees nothing of the other family. The plan belongs to the family, so each one is paid for separately, with no discount.
How does a consultation with a professional work?
In the Professional Network you’ll find lawyers, mediators, psychologists, child psychologists, family therapists and therapists. With Premium or Premium Plus you get a consultation with a professional within 48 hours at a reduced rate. You share material from the app only with your consent.
Can I cancel my subscription at any time? Will I lose my data?
You can cancel your subscription at any time. You won’t lose your data: when a subscription ends, nothing is lost and both parents keep access to all messages and exports.
What if message review isn’t working at the moment?
The message waits. We don’t deliver it without review, but it isn’t lost: it stays a pending message and is delivered on its own as soon as it passes, even if you have closed the app. The app tells you plainly about the outage and offers a “Call” button: a call with the other parent needs no review.
How many messages can I send for free?
On the Free plan, each parent can send 20 messages a day. Only delivered messages count, not rewrites of a draft. The limit resets at midnight Central European Time, and a draft written after the limit waits for the next day. Premium and Premium Plus have no limit.
There is no exception for urgent messages. In an emergency, call the other parent directly or dial 112.
When will the app be available?
We don’t have a launch date yet, and we don’t want to promise one we might not keep. Write to us and we’ll let you know.
Calm for your child, even when things between you aren’t calm.
Write to us and we’ll let you know.
or write to ahoj@spolurodice.cz